Gay life in a Society

                                      Gay life in a society



By Mongi Matyholo


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 According to the encyclopaedia, Gay is a word whose original meaning was happy or joyful. In modern English, it usually means homosexual. This meaning is more common now. The word "gay" describes a person who is sexually attracted to people of the same sex. They are often also romantically interested in people of the same sex.

Being gay is one sexuality, not the universe. The sexual orientation of homosexuals is self-discovery and begins from early adulthood. Most people have been saying that being gay is against God’s will and it’s not sacred, some even go on to dispute that God in the garden of Eden only created Adam and Eve, not Adam and Abraham or rather Esther and Eve. Like really? .Why one gets worried about something that isn’t concerning his or her connection or holiness with God? Who would wake and just randomly decides to be gay? Did you wake and say I want to have a girlfriend, no it started with feelings and preferences.

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I want to reassure you that things do get better. If you are not comfortable standing up yet, try your best to ignore people trying to take away your dignity. The gay circle is small a community yet sparkled with amazing “moffies” who brighten up a sad and dreary world with glittery sparkles.”


 “But do please remember the words of Nelson Mandela: “No one is born hating another person because of the colour of his skin, or his background, or his religion (and by extension being any form of “queer”). People must learn to hate, and if they can learn to hate, they can be taught to love, for love comes more naturally to the human heart than its opposite.”

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via Online: First SA gay marriage 
If being gay is a curse; then let God who created all humans to deal with gays, not just a person who is sinful, as the “sin of being gay” like people say, isn’t engaging in sexual intercourse, not a sin?. The nerve!. The bible says don’t judge, but what do the Christian at churches do? They judge. Then there is Christian in that. Gay people undergo severe situations in societies around the world, some have been stoned, and stabbed, and shot to death. Where is the guilty conscious within you? Who would chose to a seen as a forbidden out of the society, ohh! Not to mention family, own blood. Who would opt for something that would make him to, live in fear, not knowing when he will be mocked because of his sexuality? Gay people will never get bothered by your boyfriend or girlfriend, they do not mind other people’s business, if which “straight guy” of girl is dating who. Then why you people frown their faces and make silly and stupid remarks when gay people are walking on the streets? No would answer that. Are you not sure about your sexuality, probably maybe?


A very a touching story in Brazil, a mother of a 17-year-old gay hired two men to beat up her son in an ambush at the family home in order to “teach him a lesson”. Where is the heart of a mother? You carried those souls for nine months in your womb but the boldness to kill your own son! A mother should be the ark to room to when the outer world is bitter

The charred remains of Itaberli Lozano, 17, were found on January 7 in a sugar cane field after he was stabbed to death by his mother
via MailOnline :he was stabbed by his mother to death because he was gay 
 All I want to all people who are homophobic, being gay is just like black and white nor other option, you do not choose from a buffet. You are that! Hate will not make gay people change
Being different is quite possibly the thing that will give you the strength to one day is the most amazing human being that you can offer the world. The world needs you. It needs us. Moreover, there is a space here for everybody. In addition, your loved ones – I can only hope that they see past your differences and that one day they will love and accept you for who you are. It will not happen overnight – give them time also to process things.
So on the day when you’re ready to take that step (and yes it will be terrifying) – when you’re ready to remove that burden from your shoulders and to accept yourself and love yourself for who you are – remember that there is a community (of decent human beings, gay and straight and other) – and gay people are here for you.
One God creates everyone 


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